Book Reviews

My overview of Pete Walker's book, "Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving."



My series of posts critiquing the book "Child Training Tips" by Reb Bradley, the pastor of the homeschooling cult church that my family attended for many of my teen years: 

Read my introduction of the book here.
Read "Criticism #1: A Parent Who Assumes the Worst" here.
Read "Criticism #2: An Extremely Controlling Parent" here.
Read "Criticism #3: A Parent Who Tries to Change Minds and Hearts Through Spanking" here.
Read "Criticism #4: A Parent Who Isolates in Order to Control" here.
Read my conclusion here.

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